The short answer

  • Jesa is held on the anniversary of a death. Charye is the shorter morning rite on Seollal and Chuseok for several generations at once.
  • Famous table rules such as hongdong-baekseo are not found in the classical ritual manuals, and in 2022 Sungkyunkwan said jeon is optional and about nine items are enough.
  • The practice is shrinking fast. A Korea Rural Economic Institute survey found only 27.3% of households planned a charye for Chuseok 2026, down from 40.4% a year earlier.

Chuseok 2026 fell on 25 September. In the days before it, millions of Korean kitchens filled with the smell of frying: pancakes of fish, zucchini and meat stacked by the dozen for a table that would be set for the dead before it was eaten by the living.

Fewer kitchens every year, though. The ancestral rite is the Korean ritual that visitors hear most about and see least, because it happens at home, early in the morning, behind closed doors. It is also the one changing fastest.

This is Part 4 of our Korean rites of passage series. After the birthdays of Part 3, we move to what happens after a life ends, and how Koreans keep remembering.

What is the difference between jesa and charye?

Jesa is for a death anniversary. Charye is for a holiday.

🕯️ The two main household rites compared

Gijesa (기제사)Charye (차례)
WhenThe anniversary of an ancestor’s deathSeollal (Lunar New Year) and Chuseok mornings
Time of dayTraditionally the first hour of the death day, around midnight; now often the eveningMorning, after it is light (no candles needed)
For whomThe ancestor who died on that date (often with their spouse)All the ancestors the family honours, together
WineThree offerings: the host (usually the eldest son), then traditionally his wife or a senior relative, then a third personOne offering
Written prayerYes, traditionally (often skipped now)No
Special foodRice and soupSeasonal food: tteokguk at Seollal, songpyeon at Chuseok

The umbrella word 제사 (jesa) is used loosely for both, which is where most confusion comes from.

According to the National Folk Museum’s Encyclopedia of Korean Folk Culture, charye was never part of the formal Confucian liturgy at all. The classical manuals describe seasonal rites, death-day rites and graveside rites, but no holiday rite. The name probably comes from the short visit to the family shrine on the fifteenth of each month, when only tea was offered (charye means “tea rite”, although Korean families offer alcohol, not tea). The encyclopedia describes charye as a simplified rite families held because it felt wrong to celebrate a holiday without including the ancestors. Over the centuries the dozens of holiday rites a year shrank to two.

The death-day rite has its own history. The same encyclopedia notes that a 1390 law limited ordinary people to honouring only their parents, while senior officials could honour three generations. By the 18th century, honouring four generations (사대봉사, sadae bongsa), back to great-great-grandparents, had become the norm for everyone. For a family that took this literally, that meant eight death-day rites a year plus two holidays, all hosted by the eldest son’s household.


How is a Korean ancestral table laid out?

In five rows, from the spirit tablet outwards. This is the standard arrangement the Encyclopedia of Korean Folk Culture describes, based on Yi I’s Jeuicho manual:

📜 The five-row table, read from the ancestor's side

RowWhat goes there
1 (closest to the tablet)Wine cups, spoons and chopsticks, rice and soup (at a Seollal charye, tteokguk instead)
2Noodles, rice cake, grilled skewers (jeok) and fish
3Soups (tang), in odd numbers
4Dried meat or fish (po), cooked vegetables (namul), sikhae or sikhye
5 (closest to the family)Fruit

The most important point, the encyclopedia says, is that left and right are defined from the ancestor’s point of view, which is the reverse of the family’s. Then come the layout sayings every Korean has heard from an aunt:

None of them is in the rulebook. The Encyclopedia of Korean Folk Culture states plainly that hongdong-baekseo, joyul-isi, jwapo-uhae and eodong-yukseo are not specified in the ritual manuals. The classic texts just say "fruit". These rules grew up later, and differ from family to family. Koreans have a word for this: 가가례 (gagarye), "every house has its own rites".

What did Sungkyunkwan’s 2022 guideline change?

Sungkyunkwan, the historic Confucian academy in Seoul that still acts as the national body for Confucian ritual, set up a committee to settle what a charye table actually requires. On 5 September 2022, just before Chuseok, the committee, chaired by Choi Young-gap, published its answer, as reported by the Hankook Ilbo:

The Sungkyunkwan charye guideline (2022)

  • About nine dishes are enough. The basics are songpyeon, namul (cooked vegetables), grilled food (gui or jeok), kimchi, fruit and wine.
  • Optional extras: meat, fish or rice cake, if the family wants more.
  • No jeon required. Fried and pan-fried food does not need to be on the table.
  • Fruit order is free. The committee repeated that hongdong-baekseo and joyul-isi do not appear in the ritual texts.
  • A photo can replace the paper tablet (지방, jibang) in homes without a family shrine.
  • Grave visits can be done before or after the charye.
  • The family decides. The committee stressed that the details should be agreed among the family.

The point about jeon was the one that made headlines. Frying mountains of pancakes had become the symbol of holiday drudgery, most of it done by women, and the national Confucian authority was now saying it had never been required. (If you like jeon anyway, and you should, see our jeon and bindaetteok guide.)


How many Korean families still hold ancestral rites?

A shrinking minority, and the drop is steep.

40.4%
Households planning a Chuseok charye, 2025 (KREI)
27.3%
Same question, Chuseok 2026
65.3%
Households with no plan to hold a charye, 2026

Those figures come from the Korea Rural Economic Institute, a government research institute, which surveyed 1,000 households online from 21 to 26 August 2026 for its Chuseok fruit-market outlook. Among the households still holding a charye, 50.9% said they would use a simplified traditional table and only 20.1% a full formal one. Money Today, reporting the survey, compared it with a 2016 figure of 74.4%.

A separate Korea Research poll of 1,000 adults, taken 4 to 7 September 2026, found 30% planned to hold a rite this Chuseok, down from 35% the year before. Only 40% said ancestral rites were necessary as a tradition, while 67% still thought grave visits were necessary. The rite is fading faster than the feeling behind it.

The reasons are not mysterious: smaller families and fewer eldest sons, more Christian households (many Korean Protestants do not perform ancestral rites and hold a memorial service instead), long holiday traffic, and a younger generation that sees Chuseok as a rest day. Many families have also merged rites: honouring all ancestors on one date, moving the time to early evening, or holding the rite at the grave.

How much does a charye table cost?

According to the Korea Agro-Fisheries and Food Trade Corporation (aT), the state food-distribution agency, a charye table for a family of four cost about 196,630 won a week before Chuseok 2026. That figure, as reported by Money Today and Joongdo Ilbo, is based on 24 items priced at 17 traditional markets and 36 large retailers on 18 September 2026, and was 1.5% lower than in 2025, helped by cheaper fruit and seafood and by government discount programmes.

A Sungkyunkwan-style nine-dish table should cost less than the full spread, and many families now buy ready-made jeon and namul from markets or supermarkets rather than cooking everything.

What should you do if you’re invited to a jesa or charye?

It is a real honour, usually extended only to a close friend or a partner. Here is how not to get it wrong.

Etiquette at a Korean ancestral rite

  • Dress neatly and soberly. Dark or muted colours; no shorts or loud prints.
  • Arrive on time and offer to help in the kitchen or with carrying dishes, but don't arrange anything on the table yourself. Every family has its own layout.
  • Stand where you are told, usually behind the family. Men and women sometimes stand on different sides.
  • Bow when the family bows. Two deep bows is the standard; in some families women bow four times. If your religion rules out bowing, standing quietly with your head lowered is widely accepted. Ask the host beforehand.
  • Stay silent during the part when the ancestors are "eating", often a few minutes with heads bowed.
  • No photos unless the host offers.
  • Eat afterwards. Sharing the food and wine (음복, eumbok) is part of the rite. Declining entirely can seem cold.
  • Bring a small gift such as fruit or a gift set, as you would when visiting any Korean home at the holidays.

When do ancestral rites happen?

Charye takes place on the mornings of Seollal and Chuseok, the two big lunar holidays. The next one is Seollal 2027; our guide to Korea’s public holidays has the dates. Death-day rites happen year-round on each family’s own dates, usually in the evening.

If you want to see an ancestral rite in person without an invitation, the royal version is performed at Jongmyo, the Joseon dynasty’s royal ancestral shrine in Seoul, on set days each year. See our Jongmyo Shrine guide.

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What you will see without trying is the supply side: in the week before Chuseok or Seollal, traditional markets fill with dried pollack, chestnuts, jujubes and trays of jeon, and department stores stack gift sets to the ceiling. For what Koreans actually eat at this time of year, see Chuseok and Korea’s autumn seasonal food.

Related reading

The Korean rites of passage series

  1. Postpartum care centers (sanhujoriwon)
  2. Baegil: the 100th-day celebration
  3. Hwangap and chilsun: milestone birthdays
  4. Jesa and charye: ancestral rites (you are here)
  5. Beolcho and seongmyo: grave visits

Earlier milestones we've covered: first birthday (doljanchi), weddings, funerals.